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Stars in their Eyes

Author: Andre' Vella Borda for Weddings & Homes magazine.

Breaking the News

Nowadays an engagement is much less formal than it used to be. It is still a very important commitment, yet unlike marriage, law does not sanction it. This however does not mean that there are no formalities and courtesies that should be observed.

Close family members and friends have to be told. The parents should be the first to know; they are entitled this courtesy even though it is no longer necessary to ask their consent.

Some parents might be old-fashioned and would appreciate some kind, even if mild, gesture pointing towards asking for approval.

Traditionally, the bride’s parents are the first to be told, followed by the groom’s parents. Close relatives and friends come next. Announcements in local newspapers are becoming uncommon, even though it’s a very effective medium to spread the news.

If you decide to place an announcement, make sure that the closest persons to you get to know beforehand. Some might not appreciate getting to know the news from the press!

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