1.  Invitations should be written by hand.  Those who have poor handwriting can hire a professional calligrapher or use a computer script font such as 'Shelley Allegro' or 'Commercial Script'.

 

2. It is suggested not to write the name of a deceased parent on your wedding invitations.  Rather, light a candle during the ceremony in his/her memory.

3.  If you would prefer no children at your wedding ceremony or reception do not indicate this by writing "No children" or "Adults Only".  It is understood that no children are invited, simply by not including them on the invitation.  You may also emphasise your preference by word of mouth.  Keep in mind that this needs to be an 'all or nothing' situation.

4.  Invitations for your wedding day should not only be sent to your guests, but also to those who are familiar with the wedding details. i.e., the bridal party, best man and both sets of parents!  These invitations will serve as a memento of your wedding day.

5.  If you are inviting colleagues from work to your wedding, send them a personal invitation at home and not at work.

6.  When inviting friends, you do not have to invite a guest as well.  It is obligatory to invite guests only for those who are married, engaged, are living together or have a long-term relationship.  In such cases, you should indicate their name on the invitation rather than using " & Guest".

7.  You do not have to invite a co-worker with whom you do not socialise.  Remember your wedding day is a special day and only special people should be around you!  The same applies to your employer, although it might be appropriate to invite your immediate supervisor.

8.  When an invited guest does not come to your home or does not call, do not assume that he received the invitation and is not coming.  His invitation might have been lost in the mail and, instead, the guest is thinking he/she has not been invited.  Clear any doubt by phoning and checking that the invitation was delivered.

9.  Be aware that by including a monetary preference card with your wedding invitations you are assuming that your guests will offer you a gift. This may seem inappropriate. While it is typical for a guest to offer you a gift, do not be seen to be expecting it.